In this video, Dr. Frankie breaks down what makes dating in your 30s different—and how to make it better than ever. Unlike in your 20s, relationships now are less about chance and more about intention. There’s no single “right” way to date—many people are starting fresh, coming out later, or rebuilding after past relationships. The key is focusing on what you truly want, not what society expects. Investing in yourself—whether through therapy, setting boundaries, or exploring what makes you happy—can make dating more fulfilling than ever. Your 30s aren’t about catching up; they’re about creating the love life that actually fits you.
Recommended Books:
Rewriting the Rules:
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781138043596
Thanks for Waiting: The Joy (& Weirdness) of Being a Late Bloomer:
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How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self:
https://amzn.to/4gOZHme
Dr. Frankie is the CEO & Founder of LittleGayBook.com, which focuses on personalized matchmaking and singles events for lesbians, bisexual women, and trans women and has successfully connected couples across the United States for the last decade and a half.
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In 2022 Dr. Frankie presented a TedX talk focusing on the topic of sexual fluidity. You can view it here: https://youtu.be/mIjAqACtCLg
Her latest venture is as CEO & Founder of LittleBlackBookMatchmaking.com, specializing in personalized matchmaking and singles events for heterosexual singles.
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