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LBTQ+ dating and relationship coaching

Find Clarity, Confidence & Connection With Expert Guidance

LBTQ+ dating and relationship coaching

Find Clarity, Confidence & Connection With Expert Guidance

Break Free from Dating Frustration. Step Into the Love You Deserve.

Done with the drama of bad relationships, tired of the dead-end swiping scene, and ready to meet the love of your life? You’re in the perfect place. If you’re struggling with any of these, coaching can help:
  • Exhausted by ghosting, mixed signals, or partners with different intentions
  • Stuck in repeating patterns that never lead to lasting love
  • Unsure how to re-enter dating after time away for work, family, or growth
  • Disconnected in a relationship that feels ‘fine’ but not truly fulfilling
  • Longing for clarity, confidence, and a healthier vision of love

you don’t need to keep spinning in circles.

With expert coaching, you can begin moving toward the relationship you truly deserve.

Why Coaching Could Work for You

You already have what it takes to create the relationship you desire. Coaching helps you get out of your own way – shifting patterns, breaking through blocks, and empowering you to connect with love more intentionally. Whether you’re single or partnered, coaching offers confidential, compassionate support to help you:
  • Identify and overcome the patterns holding you back
  • Build confidence in dating and relationship skills
  • Clarify what you truly want and need in a partner
  • Create a vision for a healthy, lasting relationship
  • Develop strategies to attract and sustain love
  • Strengthen communication to foster trust and intimacy
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little gay book’s
dating & relationship coaching

Dating and relationship coaching isn’t about dissecting the past – it’s about intentionally creating the future. Focused, flexible, and engaging – our coaching blends compassionate guidance with proven strategies to help you attract meaningful love, balance life with romance, nurture intimacy, and live with greater connection and vitality. With one-on-one support tailored exclusively to you, we provide a refined pathway toward building the strong, lasting relationship you deserve.

Meet Your Coaches

dr. frankie bashan

I’m Dr. Frankie – a psychologist, board-certified sex therapist, and nationally recognized LGBTQ+ matchmaker. For nearly two decades, I’ve combined my clinical background with intuition to help people create and nurture the love they deserve. Featured in Cosmopolitan, NPR, MTV, and more, I’ve guided thousands through matchmaking, speed-dating, and private coaching. I know the challenges queer singles face, and my mission is simple – to help you find the one in the way that feels right for you.

denise rai

I’m Denise Rai, a matchmaker and love coach with over a decade of experience helping people open their hearts to lasting connection. My holistic approach looks beyond preferences to your values, story, and what makes love meaningful. In our work, I’ll help you build confidence, strengthen communication, and release blocks that might be keeping you from love. More than anything, my passion is to support you in creating relationships that feel joyful, healthy, and aligned with who you are.

Complimentary Discovery Call

Curious if coaching is the right fit? Start with a complimentary 15-minute discovery call. You’ll get a feel for the process, ask your questions, and explore how coaching can transform your love life – all with no pressure or obligation.

start your journey

option 1

New Client Introductory Session with Dr. Frankie

counts towards your first six-session package
work with dr. frankie

option 2

Dating and Relationship Coaching Package with Dr. Frankie

completed within eight weeks

work with dr. frankie

option 3

New Client Introductory Session with Denise Rai

$275 for one session

counts towards your first six-session package

work with denise
work with denise

option 4

Dating and Relationship Coaching Package with Denise Rai

$1,500 for six sessions

completed within eight weeks

work with denise

The confidence in working with Dr. Frankie provided a level of trust that was the only option for me.

Jill

Jill met her partner Briana through Little Gay Book's Matchmaking

They quickly grasped what I was looking for – not just a partner, but a soulmate. The change was dramatic, and I met someone incredible.

Dan

Little Gay Book's Matchmaking

Dr. Frankie’s Zoom Speed Dating was the best option I ever tried… I had substantive conversations and efficiently met a lot of people in one evening.

Dorie

Little Gay Book's Speed Dating

ready to change your love life?

With the right guidance, you can stop repeating old patterns and start creating the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.

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