Helping LBTQ+ & Non-Binary People Find Genuine Relationships
Helping LBTQ+ & Non-Binary People Find Genuine Relationships
At Little Gay Book, matchmaking isn’t a platform, a list of faces you swipe past, or an algorithm that guesses for you. It’s a highly personalized process – built on conversation, emotional insight, and nearly 20 years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking expertise.
We get to know you in a way apps never could – your heart, your history, your patterns, your hopes. From there, every introduction is intentional, every match thoughtfully selected, and every step designed to move you closer to lasting love.
so, you’ve tried everything when it comes to dating? Think again… Take this 2-minute quiz to find your shade of gay and level-up your love game. Discover your spot on the butch-femme spectrum, get a full report of how to use it to your advantage, and get ready to find where your perfect person is hiding (hint: they might be closer than you think).
Everyone starts with a short profile that places you in our private internal directory – a confidential space our matchmakers use behind the scenes. It’s never public, never searchable, and never something you browse. It simply helps us get to know you.
Eligible singles are invited to complete a more detailed profile and talk to us about their history, their patterns, and what they’re looking for. This is where we start to understand your heart – and whether our premier matchmaking program is the right next step.
We only move forward with clients we genuinely believe we can match well. If it’s a fit, you’ll enter a structured, supportive process that includes a personal assessment, a compatibility review, and a bespoke plan to find lasting love.
Once you’re in the program, your matchmaker hand-selects each introduction with intention based on values, lifestyle, and long-term alignment. We arrange the dates and debrief with you afterward to build clarity, confidence, and momentum.
Whichever option you choose, your result will be an intentional journey that helps you move beyond frustration – and toward the relationship you’ve always envisioned.






I was dating and had gone the online route. It was great, I met a lot of really amazing women. But I was craving more of a connection. I was ready to do something completely differ- ent. There were moments where I thought “you are going to pay for a date, you are crazy!”. But clearly who I was choosing wasn’t working and I was ready to put it in some-one else’s hands. The confidence in working with Dr. Frankie provided a level of trust that was the only option for me.
Working with Dr. Frankie, there was a closeness where I really felt that she understood my identity, my background, where I might be coming from, and what I might be looking for. I felt she was someone who had my best interests at heart and really cared about me, which made the process feel unexpectedly natural
Hi Dr. Frankie, in our last 30-min private session for “Single, Sexy, & Queer” you mentioned to let you know if things went well with my dates. The particular dates that I talked about during the session didn’t work out. But your advice really gave me confidence and clarity to move forward, and I was able to meet someone after that, who is now my girlfriend
The whole experience with SSQ, your private sessions, and LGB community not only gave me the support to start a new relationship but also gave me the confidence to maintain and nurture it. I know you’re super busy but just wanted to let you know how much it made a difference in my life. Thank you so much, Dr. Frankie!”
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