I’m struck by four things as I look back in review:
- There are no guarantees when it comes to partnership
- It’s important to always take care of yourself
- Having an open heart is truly a lifelong endeavor
- We must resist the confines of geography (when it comes to finding love)
It’s important to always take care of yourself. Regardless of whether you are single or coupled, self-care is paramount. Making time for exercise is especially important. Going for a quick job or a just doing a set of exercises found on Pinterest does wonders for your mind and studies show the increase in endorphins can stave off depression. Check out my self-care guidelines on my website.
Having an open heart is lifelong endeavor.
Life is a painful journey. Divorce, break ups and general hardship can take its toll on our hearts. We may build walls to protect ourselves, only to feel isolated and disconnected. Resist this urge. Accept that life is a journey and every relationship is necesssary for your journey. Having an open heart is all about being vulnerable. Vulnerability is essential for quality human connection, love and change. If you’re uncomfortable with vulnerability, watch the TED talks by Brene Brown
. Put her tips into daily practice.
Resist the confines of geography:
There are women all over the world in my matchmaking database
and they all want a loving, quality partner, long-term partner. Resist the urge to only seek a mate in your zip code
. Just because she doesn’t live in your city right now, doesn’t mean she might not in the future. It’s about finding the right mate for you and that doesn’t always fall within tidy boundaries. Read more…
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Happy New Year! May you and family feel happiness and abundance in 2015.