Meet Dr Frankie Bashan

Esteemed LGBTQ+ Matchmaker & Your Personal Guide To Love

Meet Dr Frankie Bashan

Esteemed LGBTQ+ Matchmaker & Your Personal Guide To Love

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Finding love should be a joyful journey

Finding love is one of life’s most meaningful journeys – but it isn’t always simple. Swiping, ghosting, and endless dating can leave even the most confident people feeling frustrated or stuck.

At Little Gay Book, Dr. Frankie (that’s me!) has spent over a decade guiding LGBTQ+ singles toward intentional, joyful, and lasting relationships. Drawing on my background as a clinical psychologist, board-certified sex therapist, and nationally recognized matchmaker, I blend warmth, intuition, and expertise to help you find the genuine connection you’ve been searching for.

Because everyone deserves authentic, lasting love.

Finding Love Should Be a Joyful Journey Because everyone deserves authentic, lasting love.

Because everyone deserves authentic, lasting love.

Finding love is one of life’s most meaningful journeys – but it isn’t always simple. Swiping, ghosting, and endless dating can leave even the most confident people feeling frustrated or stuck.

My passion lies in connecting humans who have achieved so much in life but are missing that special someone to share it with. I’m a firm believer in the power of love, and I’m on a mission to help others find and experience it.

Dr Frankie Bashan,

Founder, Little Gay Book

Some facts about frankie

I’m incredibly hard working and often don’t stop until it’s done the right way.

So you get a matchmaker who refuses to settle until she finds the right fit for you.

I absolutely love being a mother to my twins.

So you can trust me to bring care and empathy to your love journey.

I believe everyone deserves to love and be loved.

So you’ll feel supported by someone committed to your happiness and fulfillment.

I sometimes have anxiety that I’ve learned to deal with.

So you’ll be met with compassion and understanding for your own vulnerabilities.

I love to laugh and to make others laugh even more.

So you’ll experience a process that feels warm, human, and even joyful along the way.

I dislike mean, selfish, and conceited people.

So you’ll only be introduced to thoughtful, genuine matches who share your values.

I feel incredibly fortunate for my sixth sense in matching people for romance.

So you benefit from an intuitive approach that sees what apps and algorithms can’t.

I will scour the ends of the earth to find my clients a partner they can fall in love with.

So you can count on relentless dedication to your search for lasting love.

My New York accent is bound to come out after a few drinks.

So, well, nothing really – but I do like to prepare people!

There is nothing more exciting to me than making a successful match.

So you’ll have a partner in your corner who celebrates your wins as much as you do.

I believe we are all miracles.

So you’ll work with someone who honors your individuality and sees your inherent worth.

I’m very confident but get nervous speaking in front of larger crowds.

So you’ll find me approachable, relatable, and grounded – never out of touch.

I absolutely love to dance-usually till I drop!

I love to laugh and love making others laugh even more.

I love dark chocolate.

I love sexy smoky eyes.

I love “femme”-ing it up.

I love fashion design.

what I dislike

I dislike mean people, selfish people, and conceited people

I dislike phony.

what I believe

I believe we are all miracles.

I believe everyone deserves love and to be loved

It’s easy for me to give love to others.

So you’ll feel genuinely cared for throughout the entire matchmaking journey.

I’m direct and value communication.

So you get clear, honest feedback and a straightforward path to finding love.

I appreciate constructive criticism.

So you’ll benefit from an open, adaptive process that evolves with your needs.

I love being challenged and thrive when I’m able to be creative.

So you’ll receive personalized strategies designed just for you – never one-size-fits-all.

fun facts about me

I prefer the beach over the snow any day.

I get carsick when in the passenger seat.

I often speak really fast and sometimes loud.

When I’m mad or have had two or more drinks, my New York accent is bound to come out.

I am directionally impaired and can get lost in a paper bag.

I can sometimes be a real ditz, causing people to joke that I should have been a blonde.

I sometimes wear wigs, especially when I’m feeling sassy.

I’m left-handed.

I wanted to join the circus as a small child.

I enjoy lifting really heavy weights.

I do CrossFit-type workouts almost daily

who I am

I’m terrified of heights.

I have an incredibly sensitive sense of smell.

I sometimes have anxiety that I’ve learned to deal with.

I am a native New Yorker with some attitude.

I am very confident but get nervous speaking in front of larger crowds.

I’m incredibly hard-working and often don’t stop until it’s done the right way.

family

I absolutely love being a mother to my boy/girl twins.

My favorite two people in the world are my 15-year-old twins, Shea and Asher.

professional highlights

There is nothing more exciting to me than making a successful match.

I feel incredibly fortunate for the gift of intuition and a sixth sense when it comes to matching people for romance.

I will scour the ends of the earth to find my matchmaking clients a partner they can fall in love with.

what I love

I absolutely love to dance-usually till I drop!

I love to laugh and love making others laugh even more.

I love dark chocolate.

I love sexy smoky eyes.

I love “femme”-ing it up.

I love fashion design.

what I dislike

I dislike mean people, selfish people, and conceited people

I dislike phony.

what I believe

I believe we are all miracles.

I believe everyone deserves love and to be loved

fun facts about me

I prefer the beach over the snow any day.

I get carsick when in the passenger seat.

I often speak really fast and sometimes loud.

When I’m mad or have had two or more drinks, my New York accent is bound to come out.

I am directionally impaired and can get lost in a paper bag.

I can sometimes be a real ditz, causing people to joke that I should have been a blonde.

I sometimes wear wigs, especially when I’m feeling sassy.

I’m left-handed.

I wanted to join the circus as a small child.

I enjoy lifting really heavy weights.

I do CrossFit-type workouts almost daily

We find your perfect match

Meet Dr Frankie Bashan

Meet Dr Frankie Bashan

FEATURED EXPERT ON

Finding love should be a joyful journey

Because everyone deserves authentic, lasting love.

Finding Love Should Be a Joyful Journey Because everyone deserves authentic, lasting love.

My passion lies in connecting humans who have achieved so much in life but are missing that special someone to share it with. I’m a firm believer in the power of love, and I’m on a mission to help others find and experience it.

Dr Frankie Bashan,

Founder, Little Gay Book

Some facts about frankie

what I dislike

what I believe

fun facts about me

who I am

family

professional highlights

what I love

what I dislike

what I believe

fun facts about me

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