The Spark Behind Connectricity: Trenia’s Story

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Love, Laughs, & Lessons
Episode 15
Trenia Johnson-Norford

In this episode join Dr. Frankie Bashan and Denise Rai as they welcome special guest Trenia Norford-Johnson, a dynamic force in the matchmaking world with a heartfelt commitment to the power of love. This episode takes a deep dive into Trenia’s inspiring journey from the world of marketing and sales to becoming a celebrated professional matchmaker. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of following one’s passion and the impact of genuine connections. This episode explores the critical importance of self-awareness, the challenges and triumphs of long-distance relationships, and the nuanced strategies behind successful matchmaking. Trenia’s unique approach, combining her rich personal experiences with her professional expertise, offers listeners a rare glimpse into the art of bringing people together. Whether you’re navigating the dating world, in a relationship, or curious about the behind-the-scenes of matchmaking, this episode provides enlightening insights, practical advice, and heartwarming stories that celebrate love in all its forms

Trenia Johnson-Norford, founder of Connectricity, is a Brooklyn-born matchmaking expert with a career spanning publishing, marketing, and banking before finding her true calling in connecting people. Her personal journey of moving cities for love and marrying her best friend led her to establish Connectricity, aiming to help others find meaningful relationships. Trenia’s passion for love and unique professional background empowers her to create lasting connections, embodying the belief that everyone has a special spark that makes them invaluable to others in their search for love.

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