Masterful Queer Connections

Dr. Frankie Bashan is a renowned relationship coach and dating expert. She is a licensed clinical psychologist with over two decades of experience working with couples and individuals and specialized training in the field of trauma. She also received her board certification in sex therapy in 2022. She possesses a unique combination of formal training, innate emotional intelligence, and communication skills that allow her to help couples struggling with relationship issues of all kinds.

Dr. Frankie is the CEO & Founder of, which focuses on personalized matchmaking and singles events for lesbians, bisexual women, and trans women and has successfully connected couples across the United States for the last decade and a half.

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In 2022 Dr. Frankie presented a TedX talk focusing on the topic of sexual fluidity. You can view it here:

Her latest venture is as CEO & Founder of, specializing in personalized matchmaking and singles events for heterosexual singles.

Dr. Frankie’s coaching is based in Northern California, but clients can access her services via Zoom from around the globe. To learn more about working with Dr. Frankie 1:1: please visit this URL:

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Love, Laughs, and Lessons
Episode 12
Kita Adams

In this heartwarming episode of Love, Laughs, and Lessons, we welcome the visionary Kita, a trailblazer in fostering queer connections and creating spaces for genuine, lasting relationships. With a passion ignited by personal experiences from a young age, Kita shares her journey from witnessing her parents’ divorce to becoming the mastermind behind a platform dedicated to quality matchmaking. Her unique approach emphasizes safety, quality over quantity, and the importance of coaching to uncover blind spots in dating. Kita discusses her innovative methods, including a database that started free and now serves as a beacon for those seeking meaningful connections across the U.S., especially catering to individuals over 30 and a growing clientele in their fifties and sixties. The episode delves into the significance of video clips in capturing personalities, the strategic use of profiles for safety, and practical dating tips and tools to ensure a successful match. Join us as we explore Kita’s commitment to the queer community, her insights on human behavior and relationships, and her invaluable advice for navigating the complexities of love in today’s world.

Bio: As the founder of “Queer Connections,” Kita Adams has meticulously crafted a platform that transcends traditional matchmaking. Her approach is rooted in a deep understanding of human behavior, a commitment to safety, and an unwavering dedication to quality over quantity. Kita’s innovative matchmaking database, initially offered for free to build a community of like-minded individuals, has now evolved into a curated space for those seeking meaningful connections.

You can find her on TIKTOK: @queerconnections
IG: @kitaadamscoaching

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