Ask Dr. Frankie Who pays on the first date?

Ask Dr. Frankie Relationship and Dating Tips for Lesbians – Lesbian Matchmaker http://www.littlegaybook.com

Today we have a question from Cathy who resides in San Jose. She writes in and says after being in a relationship for many years, I’m dating again and I’m wondering who pays on the first date? Well, this is a complicated question when we’re talking about women dating women because it really depends. So I would say that if you’re out on a date and you’re interesting in this person I think offering to pay would be a really nice gesture. If the woman is not that open or interested in you paying you could go dutch. Personally in my experience when I’m on a date, for us femme women, we like to be treated. I think most of us like to be treated. So if you’re out on a date and you have more masculine traits and are more butch. I would recommend treating your date. Good luck!
Dr. Frankie has specialized in working with the LGBT community, and specifically with couples and individuals with relational difficulties. After nine years of clinical experience Dr. Frankie sought a less formal and more dynamic setting to apply her talents. She followed her passion of connecting people and bringing happiness to their lives by becoming a professional matchmaker. Dr. Frankie launched Little Gay Book and quickly became the premiere lesbian matchmaker and bisexual matchmaker in the San Francisco Bay Area, Los Angeles, New York and Hawaii.

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