Ask Dr. Frankie Relationship and Dating Tips for Lesbians – Lesbian Matchmaker http://www.littlegaybook.com
Today we have a question from Nancy who resides in Los Angeles. She says, how do I know if my deal breakers are standing in the way of me meeting Ms. Right? So it’s really important Nancy to sit down with your list of deal breakers and make sure you don’t have more than three. I want you to sit down and write down all your deal breakers and then write down your top three. For example, your top three could be, you’re not interested in dating someone who drinks excessively, maybe someone with children, if you know you don’t want to have kids that’s a deal breaker, maybe someone who is a workaholic. I want you to sit down and really break down that list because the longer your list of deal breakers is the more you have barriers up and the harder it is to meet somebody. So I want you to stay open as much as possible and really just select the top three. I hope this is helpful Nancy, good luck to you!
Dr. Frankie has specialized in working with the LGBT community, and specifically with couples and individuals with relational difficulties. After nine years of clinical experience Dr. Frankie sought a less formal and more dynamic setting to apply her talents. She followed her passion of connecting people and bringing happiness to their lives by becoming a professional matchmaker. Dr. Frankie launched Little Gay Book and quickly became the premiere lesbian matchmaker and bisexual matchmaker in the San Francisco Bay Area, Los Angeles, San Diego, New York and Hawaii.