Today Dr. Frankie discusses the importance of clear and open communication which is essential for any new sexual connection. She suggests casual questions about likes, dislikes, boundaries, and any physical needs can help set expectations. She states, If exploring kink, check in on roles, specific activities, and whether BDSM is separate from sex for them. Lastly she imparts, understanding aftercare needs ensures everyone feels supported afterward. She says. quick chat can make the experience positive and respectful for both partners.
Recommended Books:
Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex: https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781984857156
Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and Bdsm Communities: https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9780937609583
Come as You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life: https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781982165314
In 2022 Dr. Frankie presented a TedX talk focusing on the topic of sexual fluidity. You can view it here: https://youtu.be/mIjAqACtCLg
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