Our trained Little Gay Book Hosts facilitate fun-filled events focused on people meeting and getting to know each other, making real connections, and leading to meaningful relationships.  During our events, you will meet up to 10 like-minded individuals during 5-minute dates.

Prior to the event, we will send you a link to your confidential speed dating profile.  In your profile, you will be asked to provide 2 short answers: Where you fall on the masculine/feminine expression spectrum and where your preferred date falls on the same spectrum.  Add the preferred age range and you’re all set.  The matching algorithm is designed to match your preferences as best it can, given who is in attendance and their selected preferences.

At the end of each date, you’ll have access to your feedback screen. 

Your feedback options include friendship, 2nd date, business, or no connection.  You are able to select multiple options, in fact, we recommend it, especially if you like the person.  If you and your date indicate the same feedback on at least one level you are a match and will receive one another’s contact information. 

For example:

• If you go on a date and select “friend” and they also select “friend,” you will match as friends and receive one another’s contact information. 
• If you only select “date” and they only select “friend” unfortunately it is not a match.
• If you select “friend” + “date” but they only select “friend” you are still a match because you both indicated you’d like to be friends.

We have attendees of all ages from all across the US and beyond.  Our matching algorithm will pair you with attendees as close in age as possible based on who is in attendance. 

Interested in meeting someone in a certain age range?  Check out one of our age-specific events.

1. Think about what you’d want to know about someone before going on a date with them.
2. Avoid the “What do you do for work?” in favor of “What do you do for fun?”
3. Refrain from talking about Exes. They are the past and this is about the future.
4. If you like them, try to stand out and differentiate yourself from the others in a positive way. Tasteful humor and a light-hearted demeanor go a long way.