The confidence in working with Dr. Frankie provided a level of trust that was the only option for me.
Lesbian Bed Death Is Not Inevitable. Passion Can Be Renewed. Sex coaching Designed For Lesbian, Bi, Queer, Trans, Nonbinary, Femme-Identifying, Pansexual, Asexual, Intersex & Two-Spirit Communities.
Lesbian Bed Death Is Not Inevitable. Passion Can Be Renewed. Sex Therapy Designed For Lesbian, Bi, Queer, Trans, Nonbinary, Femme-Identifying, Pansexual, Asexual, Intersex & Two-Spirit Communities.
Sexual pleasure is one of the most dynamic forces on the planet. It shapes how we move through the world, how we relate to each other, and how we express ourselves. At its best, it can be one of the most fulfilling parts of being alive – but when challenges arise, it can feel like one of the hardest.
It’s not unusual to feel stuck when it comes to sex – whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship. Desire changes, stress intrudes, and intimacy can feel harder than it should. But lesbian bed death is not inevitable. With the right support, pleasure and connection can come alive again.
When sex feels complicated, it’s rarely about ‘not trying hard enough.’ Real barriers can block intimacy, leaving you frustrated, disconnected, or resigned. If you resonate with any of these challenges, you’re not alone…
Sex coaching can untangle what’s happening – and move toward a healthier, more fulfilling sex life. It helps you understand your experiences, ease any pressure, and build the confidence that opens the door to deeper intimacy and pleasure.
Dr. Frankie Bashan is a clinical psychologist and board-certified sex therapist with nearly two decades of experience providing individual coaching, lesbian couples counseling, and dating coaching. She’s also a nationally recognized matchmaker and relationship coach – featured in outlets like Oprah, The New York Times, and NBC.
An expert in helping clients identify obstacles, manage them in healthy ways, and create lasting change – Dr. Frankie blends compassion with practical strategies. Her approach offers both a safe space for exploration and the concrete tools you need to build the intimacy, confidence, and connection you deserve.
You don’t have to settle for less intimacy than you deserve. If you’re ready to rediscover pleasure, connection, and confidence in your sex life, now’s the time to take action.
In a 60-minute session with Dr Frankie, you’ll:
This first session can be the spark that transforms how you experience intimacy – opening the door to more joy, connection, and fulfillment.
option 1
$650 for one session
Mismatched, low, or no sex drive
Anxiety from focusing too much on “getting there” (performance pressure, anorgasmia)
Taking a long time to climax, leading to guilt or self-consciousness
option 2
$3,300 for six sessions
Growing up in environments where sex was shamed or never discussed
Internalized guilt or belief that desires are “wrong” or “dirty”
Insecurities about how your body/genitals “should” look or function
The confidence in working with Dr. Frankie provided a level of trust that was the only option for me.
They quickly grasped what I was looking for – not just a partner, but a soulmate. The change was dramatic, and I met someone incredible.
Dr. Frankie’s Zoom Speed Dating was the best option I ever tried… I had substantive conversations and efficiently met a lot of people in one evening.
I had so much fun! When compared to various dating sites, this approach is so much more authentic. You get to connect with a live person and feel their energy in that moment. Even if I didn’t have an interest in dating someone, I appreciated the option to develop a friendship. I’ve done two so far and plan to return.
Finally, I took the plunge and went to my first ever speed dating event. (Really! My first.) And I’m glad I chose one facilitated by Frankie Bashan founder of littlegaybook. She knows what’s she’s doing! Painless, and, actually, way more fun than I expected. I found something enjoyable in each of the thirteen 5-minute conversation blips, even though I didn’t have romantic vision for most of the women I met. (I do have my eye on one or two, and I’ll know within 24 hours if we are aligned. And, personally, I’m only looking for one.) The phone app that structured the potential chaos was impressive and functioned well. My only complaint is, and I can’t really complain, because I was forewarned, that speed dating is very, very… speedy!
100% free tip: bring your phone, with juice, and breath deeply now and again!
Loved this event! Actually I was planning on backing out at the last moment, but then made myself attend… I am very glad I did. As a result, I met 5 new potential friends and one date. How cool is that! What’s even better is that I had a good time doing it. It was a lot of fun. I met a lot of interesting women. It was worth it. I’m glad I went, and I will be going again. Thanks.
This speed dating was incredibly well executed, even for someone who isn’t very tech savvy. It was the first time I’ve done anything like this, and it was so much fun! The women that I met at the event were an incredible mix of amazing and interesting people. The format made it easy to talk to women whom I did and did not have formal speed dates with. I made several new friends!
Thank you for making me feel so comfortable Dr. Frankie! I have been so burned out by using the dating apps and getting nowhere. I felt at ease at your fast flirting event and had wonderful in-person conversations with some incredible women. I appreciate how organized and kind you are. The event flowed well and the text rating and notice system was a plus!
I consider myself to be a social introvert and was nervous about going to this event but I was comfortable and at ease the whole time I was there. I highly recommend this event to the lesbian/bi/queer community!!
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