When Was The Last BIG Love Of Your Life?

California Curated Mini-Dates - Sunday, July 17th, 12-3 pm PT

This pandemic has hit single people hard.

I’ve been hearing from a lot of folks about the effects of lack of touch and lack of meaningful connection. What all of this is pointing to is how much more struggle there can be when we’re alone.

Let’s face it, our love lives can be challenging to navigate even in the BEST of times.

Even before all of this, just FINDING your person–someone you have a spark and mutual attraction with could be tough!

In case we haven’t met, let me introduce myself.

I’m Dr. Frankie, a psychologist, sex therapist, relationship coach and owner of the only Lesbian Matchmaking Agency exclusively for women in the country.

With over 25,000 introductions over the last decade, I have one of the highest matchmaking success rates in the industry. My work has been featured on TV, Radio and Print, nationwide. I am the Relationship Expert on MTV’s historic, 100% sexually fluid cast for Season 8 of “Are You The One.”

Featured expert on
Cosmopolitan, NPR, Curve Magazine, MTV, Glamour

My current focus is teaching women how to cope with the realities and confusion around dating that have completely changed on us overnight with Covid.

More and more, I’m seeing so many people that have spent MONTHS working on themselves in isolation. They are truly ready to find their person already!

But Now That You Are Ready, How Do You Find Her?

Here’s the challenge, there are thousands of fantastic single women located in California in the Little Gay Book Matchmaking Database.

Traditionally, the way they are matched up is through my matchmaking programs. But my high end matchmaking is not necessarily a fit for everyone, and I’m only able to work with a handful of people at a time.

That’s Why I Created This Special Way To Work With Me.

Dr. Frankie Bashan

Lesbian/Bi Curated Mini-Dates is specifically designed for professional, successful, discriminating women like you who are ready to find their life partner.

If you are ready to be supported to fall deeply in love with someone you can trust with your heart. Someone that loves you exactly as you are, and adores your quirks. Someone to fall asleep laughing with and wake up snuggling to. Someone to share special moments and reflect on the highs and lows with. Then you are ready for the kind of experience that leads to depth, soul connection, and mutual chemistry that lasts.

She DOES Exist.

She might be harder to find because, like you, she has a beautiful, full, happy life.
She doesn’t spend much time with online dating and she doesn’t necessarily wear rainbows, so how would you even know about her?

I want to help you get connected to her.

I can honestly say I would NOT have met my girlfriend if it weren’t for Dr. Frankie. My girlfriend is younger than me and I probably would have dismissed her because of age if I had come across her on an online site. I arrived at Dr. Frankie’s door after several months of online dating and being set up by friends. Taking a leap of faith, I began working with Dr. Frankie hoping to meet women who were outside my typical “type,” (since that clearly wasn’t working) as well as women who were beyond my expansive lesbian network. As a bit of a control freak it wasn’t easy for me to put my love life in someone else’s hands, but I’m so glad I did. It’s not always easy to go out of your comfort zone, but it almost always pays off in one way or another. It’s been a pleasure and a lot of fun working with Dr. Frankie. I highly recommend her if you are looking for a deeper connection and are having a hard time finding it on your own.
Monica, Finance
Little Gay Book Mini Dates

Think of this as the “Most Eligible Single Lesbians” virtual party, where you get to go on Mini-Dates with fantastic women that will be curated specifically for you based on your location, age, 2 deal-breakers, and 2 must-have qualities of your choice.

I’ll take your preferences into consideration as I handpick women to be vetted for you. This will help boost your chances of connecting with a serious match much more than the uncurated, more spontaneous experience of Speed Dating.

I Also Work With Your Preferences
On The Butch/Femme

  • “Feminine with an edge”
  • “Sporty Lesbian”
  • “Lipstick Lesbian”
  • “Chapstick Lesbian”
  • “Soft Butch”
  • “Androgynous”
  • “Stone Butch”
  • Etc.
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Straight People Don’t Know This Stuff…
And Never Will.

I understand the nuances.

There is a certain walk.
A certain look.
There are unseen degrees of outness
that need to be embraced and loved
for exactly where they are.

I create a space for you
to be loved as you are,
without apology or explanation.

I was dating and had gone the online route. It was great, I met a lot of really amazing women. But I was craving more of a connection. I was ready to do something completely different. There were moments where I thought “you are going to pay for a date, you are crazy!”. But clearly who I was choosing wasn’t working. I was ready to put it in someone else’s hands. The confidence in working with Dr Frankie provided a level of trust that was the only option for me.
Jill, Executive

The California Curated Mini-Dates Experience Is Unlike Anything Else Available In The Country. And It Will Completely Change Your Life.

This Process Will Give You Gifts For Many Parts Of Your Life.

The Curated Mini-Dates event is open to singles in California and I’ll find fabulous, relationship-ready women that live in the closest metropolitan areas to you (if you live in an obscure area, the matches from these Mini-Dates will be well worth the drive or flight!).

You’ll meet 10 women on Zoom, and will go on a 7 minute mini-date with each of them. 6 introductions will be curated for love sparks and 4 introductions will be for possible great new friends and/or serious career connections.

Zoom date

Curated Mini-Dates
Are Not To Be Confused With
My Matchmaking Services.

My flagship, discreet, Private Matchmaking service is tens of thousands of dollars and we work together for months with me coaching and introducing you to one woman at a time, refining your preferences and connections over an extended period.

A woman has a one-on-one meeting with Dr. Frankie Bashar

Curated Mini-Dates has you meeting several women during one virtual event, which involves much less of my time- allowing me to lower the cost for you. This is the closest thing to my personalized Matchmaking services that I’ve ever offered- and I can’t wait to start curating these Mini-Dates for you!

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I've just completed Dr. Frankie's on-line Curated Mini Dates Program and want to say how very impressed I am with the organization and supportive environment of this program.  Based on our one-on-one discussions of my preferences, it was obvious that Dr. Frankie put a good deal of thought into the 10 women she screened and selected for my mini dates.   As a result, I made mutual connections with over half the women she selected specifically for me, either as friends or for a second date.

The opportunities presented in this program would probably have taken at least a year of searching random profiles and disappointing first dates via the dating websites out there. If you're serious about seeking a compatible partner, and/or want to expand your social circle, Dr. Frankie has the resources and expertise to greatly improve the likelihood of your success!

Kelly M.

Here’s How It Works:

Private compatibility consultation with Dr. Frankie Bashar

Private compatibility consultation

Once you register, I’ll email you to schedule your 90-minute Private Compatibility Consultation with me.

We’ll talk through your values, your relationship history, and your visions and preferences for long term partnership. If you’ve already had a compatibility consultation then we’ll review, refine, and update what you are looking for in a match. This session allows me to take the time to really get to know you and what you’re looking for in a relationship. I often get immediate ideas of women I want to connect you with while we are talking!

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1 hour Mini-Date Training and Q&A zoom call

Then, one week before the Curated Mini-Dates Event, I’ll host a 1-hour Zoom Mini-Date Training and Q&A call to help give you tips on how to charm the people you meet on your Mini-Dates. We’ll cover things like:

  • How to present yourself to increase your chances of matching
  • What to plan for and expect (in case you’ve never participated in this type of an event)
  • You’ll get my best tips for Mini-Date success (I can present you with great women, but how you behave and how you appear is going to determine if the women you meet feel reciprocal)
  • How to keep the conversation going and good questions to ask
  • How to pay attention to the pace of the date
  • How to express interest and flirt through Zoom

And don’t worry, if you can’t make it to the training live, it will be recorded for your convenience.

30-minute debrief session

Private 30-minute Mini-Dates Debrief Session

Then, after the Curated Mini-Dates Virtual event, you’ll be able to schedule a private 30-minute Mini-Dates Debrief Session with me. We’ll talk through your experience, clarify and flush out behaviors to improve future dating experiences.

You’ll also learn how to best proceed with the folks you matched up with. We’ll talk through pacing, how quick to follow up (so you don’t look too eager or seem disinterested), and how to build off the Mini-Dates to turn them into “real” dates!

Working with Dr Frankie, there was a closeness where I really felt that she understood my identity, my background, where I might be coming from and what I might be looking for. There was a level of familiarity, closeness and understanding that I don’t think I would have found anywhere else. I felt she was someone who had my best interest at heart and really cared about me, which made the process feel unexpectedly naturally.

So Just To Recap:

The Curated Mini-Dates Experience Includes:

  • 1 90-Minute Private Compatibility Consultation With Me To Share Your Values & Partner Preferences
  • 1-Hour Group Training + Q&A Session On Zoom To Prep For The Event
  • Access To The Curated Mini-Dates Event
  • 10 Introductions To Fabulous Women Curated Specifically For You
  • An Invaluable Private Debrief Session With Me Where You Can Tap Into My 20+ Years Experience As A Psychologist, Sex Therapist, Relationship Coach And Lesbian Matchmaker To Talk Through Your Mini-Dates And The Next Steps With Turning The Mini-Date Matches Into Full Dates (and how to do it with grace).

To ensure a quality experience for everyone involved, this event is limited to the first 10 beautiful hearts that register.

The Investment Is $5,500. (save $500 if you pay in full)

But Wait, There’s More!


During this intense time we are living in, I want to make sure you have extra support in every way I can provide it. So in addition to the Full Curated Mini-Dates Experience, I’m also adding in an extra special bonus of 2 Free Months of Membership into the Little Gay Book Community. This is a singles group that is near and dear to my heart, where we have an online forum for sharing experiences and weekly group zoom meetings for connection. You’ll receive membership access as soon as you register so that you have others to connect to before and after the Curated Mini-Dates Event. ($198 value)


You’ll also receive my Ebook on Dating Tips and the do’s and don’ts for making a great impression on your dates!

What are you waiting for? Come join us in this fantastic program!

California Curated Mini-Dates – Sunday, July 17th, 12-3 pm PT

The Greatest Joy In Your Life Is Yet To Come
And I’m Ready To Make It Happen For You!

Click below to secure your spot to be one of the 10 fabulous women at the “Most Eligible Single Lesbians” Virtual Curated Mini-Dates Event:


Option 1 Budget friendly

Curated Mini-Dates

2 monthly payments of $2750
  • 90-minute Private Compatibility Consultation With Me
  • 1-Hour Zoom Mini-Date Training Class (Wednesday, July 13th, 6-7pm ET)
  • Curated Mini-Dates Event Access (Sunday, July 17th, 12-3 pm PT)
  • 10 Introductions To Fabulous Women Curated Just For You
  • 30-minute Private Debrief Session
  • BONUS 2 Months FREE Little Gay Book Community Membership
  • BONUS “Great Impression Dating Tips: Do’s & Don’ts” Ebook

Option 2 Best value!

Save $500

Curated Mini-Dates

One-time payment of $5000
  • 90-minute Private Compatibility Consultation With Me
  • 1-Hour Zoom Mini-Date Training Class (Wednesday, July 13th, 6-7pm ET)
  • Curated Mini-Dates Event Access (Sunday, July 17th, 12-3 pm PT)
  • 10 Introductions To Fabulous Women Curated Just For You
  • 30-minute Private Debrief Session
  • BONUS 2 Months FREE Little Gay Book Community Membership
  • BONUS “Great Impression Dating Tips: Do’s & Don’ts” Ebook
  • $500 pay in full discount

Option 3 Best support


Curated Mini-Dates Upgrade

One-time payment of $6500
  • Everything in Option 2
  • 1 Full-Service Matchmaking Date
  • Video Recorded Date (optional)
  • 30-minute Date Debrief/Feedback

This is something I am SO thrilled to offer. In addition to everything in Option 2, this upgrade option will have me personally match and coordinate 1 Full-Service Matchmaking Date for you. You will have the option to have the date video recorded so that I can provide you specific feedback on ways to take your dating skills to the next level. This is perfect if you struggle meeting that reciprocal special someone or evolving initial dates into relationships.

This is going to be such an incredible experience, I’m not sure if or when I’ll be doing it again, so don’t miss out on it! I can’t wait to find fabulous mini-dates for you. Wouldn’t it be nice to have someone to snuggle up and laugh with during this covid winter hibernation? I can’t wait to help you find her!

Dr. Frankie