Dear Dr. Frankie
I am a beautiful middle-age femme that has just (2 years) come out of a long relationship. I would like to meet someone but I don’t know how to begin. Please help!!!
Dear Recently Single,
I would recommend you start by changing things up a bit. Doing away with the old and starting over with a new refreshed look. Consider getting a makeover or maybe just a new haircut or some new clothes that will help you move in the direction of change both mentally and physically. Something like a detoxification. While you’re working on increasing your self esteem you should be taking some time to view profiles on the larger online dating sites. That’s of course if you’re open to online dating. I highly recommend seriously considering it. Many people have found amazing partners online. Once you have a sense of what you want your profile to look like dive in and invest some time in being thoughtful and clear about what you’re looking for. You don’t want to waste your time or anyone else’s time. Good luck!