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Victoria Joseph and Ryan Hicks

Unveiling The Matchmaker

Birds of a Feather: Soaring Beyond Traditional Matchmaking

In the concluding episode of our Unveiling The Art of Matchmaking series on Love, Laugh, and Lessons, Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai are joined by Victoria Joseph and her husband Ryan, the innovative pair from Birds of a Feather Matchmaking. Specializing in ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, and swinger lifestyles, Victoria and Ryan share their journey from military service to becoming trailblazers in non-traditional matchmaking. They dive into the complexities of fostering open communication, trust, and connection in relationships that challenge conventional norms. Whether you’re curious about ethical non-monogamy or looking to deepen your understanding of non-traditional love, this episode is packed with insights that will inspire you to embrace authentic relationships, whatever form they may take.

Bio: Victoria is the visionary founder behind Birds of a Feather Matchmaking, the first certified boutique matchmaking firm dedicated to ethically non-monogamous (ENM), open, polyamorous, and swinger lifestyle relationships. Based in Chicago, IL, Victoria and her husband Ryan provide their unique expertise to clients nationwide, focusing on those seeking or open to non-traditional relationships in major metropolitan areas. Together, they also offer specialized Date Coaching for men, guiding them toward success in both traditional and non-traditional relationships, as well as helping men thrive as confident, successful singles within the lifestyle.

Links:
Website: Birds of a Feather Matchmaking
Join the database: Dating Date-abase Application – Birds of a Feather Matchmaking
Schedule a call: Contact Us – Birds of a Feather Matchmaking
Follow us on IG: Victoria | Matchmaker | Dating Coach (@birdsofafeathermm) • Instagram photos and videos

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