Should You Go to Bed Angry? A Relationship Expert Explains

Most of us will have heard this relationship (or marriage) truism repeated ad nauseam: that the secret to happiness and stability is “never going to bed mad.” The trick, or […]
5 Reasons Your Dating App Profile Isn’t Getting Matches

Getting onto the apps can feel intimidating and stressful — there’s nothing worse than finally making the leap and then experiencing crickets as you go without matches for what feels […]
What to Do When Your Partner and Friends Don’t Get Along

Most of us would love to have a sitcom-esque social life where all our favorite people are constantly hanging out together in one big group at our favorite coffee shop […]
How to Communicate With an Anxiously Attached Partner

It’s incredibly common for anxiously attached and avoidantly attached folks to end up together — they form a dynamic that feels familiar and enticing to both parties. Unfortunately, it’s also […]
How to Heal After An Abusive Relationship and Get Ready to Love Again

Experience abuse of any kind in a relationship context — emotional, psychological, physical or sexual abuse — is a profoundly harmful experience, and leaves many people feeling like they’re living […]
Why Women Watch Porn: What the Research and Reality Show

When you think about pornography, you might have a few specific images in mind: a man clutching a magazine wrapped in a black plastic bag, or flipping through pay-per-view channels […]
What to Do When Your Partner and Your Parents Don’t Get Along

It’s normal to be nervous about meeting the parents — but what happens when the anxiety is warranted and it genuinely doesn’t go well? It would be great for all […]
Anxious Attachment Protest Behaviors: What They Are and How to Change Them

At this point, many of us know our attachment style — we might even be aware of the ways it’s impacted the partners we’ve chosen or the patterns of our […]
The Protest Behaviors You Need to Work on If You’re Avoidantly Attached

If you’re avoidantly attached, you may think of yourself as being low-maintenance, low-drama, and extremely self-sufficient; you may feel like your partners are historically the ones who cause drama, pick […]
Dating in the Jewish World: Tradition, Identity, and Modern Sensibilities

Dating & Flirting Identity & Community Love & Relationships Sex & Intimacy Well-Being & Self-Care Dating in the Jewish World: Tradition, Identity, and Modern Sensibilities by Danielle Selber Just like […]