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    January 2014

    "Most people think of love as a feeling," says David Richo, "but love is not so much a *feeling* as a way of being present." In his book, How to Be An Adult in Relationships, Richo offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships—one that focuses not on finding an ideal mate, but on becoming a more loving and realistic person. This

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    Dear Dr. Frankie, I finally found the quote of yours that I have been perplexed about: "You probably want to get a sense of whether she’s had long-term, healthy, intimate relationships, whether she’s had positive experiences in her relationships and whether she and her ex maintained a friendship after the breakup" I get why this would be revealing, but sooooo many

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    Dear Dr. Frankie, This is my first time in a lesbian relationship. Here’s the timeline: we connected six months ago and dated for four months. Her ex wreaked havoc, so she spoke to her ex and they hashed out some past issues. The daily texts between them began to cause a lot of anxiety and fights between us. Throughout our

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    Dear Dr. Frankie, I entered my first lesbian relationship about four months ago.  I care a lot about my girlfriend and I enjoy all the time I spend with her…but recently I've noticed some new feelings.  I’d like some advice on how to control and avoid them, because I foresee them being dangerous to our relationship. Girls can be naturally insecure and

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