Am I Codependent in My Relationship?

Dr. Frankie Bashan is a renowned relationship coach and dating expert. She is a licensed clinical psychologist with over two decades of experience working with couples and individuals and specialized training in the field of trauma. She also received her board certification in sex therapy in 2022. She possesses a unique combination of formal training, innate emotional intelligence, and communication skills that allow her to help couples struggling with relationship issues of all kinds.

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Dr. Frankie explores the meaning of codependency, its origins in the context of addiction, and how it can manifest in relationships. She also provides examples of codependent behaviors and provides questions to help listeners to reflect on their own experiences. Ultimately, the she suggests seeking therapy and working together with a partner to address codependency issues when codependency is present.

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