Recent Blog Entries

Sep 22 Lesbian Dating: 6 Steps To Start Dating Again After a Break Up

Break ups are brutal. Regardless of the situation, or how long you were together, a broken heart stings.

I’m not going to tell you it’s going to be easy. It’s not. It’s going to hurt, it’s going to seem like forever that it hurts and the idea of dating again is going to be last thing you want to do. Read the rest of this entry »

Posted September 22nd, 2014 by Dr. Frankie
Sep 10 How to Consciously Uncouple

FixingBrokenHeartSeveral months ago Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin brought the term “conscious uncoupling” into mainstream consciousness.  They put a label to a very thoughtful and perhaps even, loving way of undoing a marriage or romantic union.  What I like about the word choice is the respect it pays the act of the undoing.  Marriage and partnership is a conscious choice, why should the end be granted any less consideration and respect? Read the rest of this entry »

Posted September 10th, 2014 by Dr. Frankie
Aug 20 Lesbians and Codependency

Codependency-in-WomenThere’s a reason the Uhaul 2nd Date, lesbian stereotype exists: Lesbians attach. Sensitive to the oxytocin and neurochemicals of attachment, lesbians bond faster and more intensely than other couples. Sometimes, those intense relationships develop into lesbian codependency. Read the rest of this entry »

Posted August 20th, 2014 by Dr. Frankie

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